Confidence in Marriage

Does confidence have a place in marriage? I was listening to a Youtube motivational video the other day and it talked about confidence. Something was said that really hit. To build confidence means to keep your word to yourself. If you tell yourself you’re gonna do it, and you do it. You build your confidence. As I have taken the actions to build my confidence, I have found that it has greatly enhanced my marriage.

When I started growing my confidence, I stopped making excuses. I stopped putting up with things that weren’t serving me or my marriage. I stopped allowing other preconceived ideals of marriage to disrupt my relationship. Building my confidence allowed me to be strong against Seth when I felt he needed the tough love. I no longer feared offending or upsetting him because I know what I want and I know what I deserve.

I know this may sound conceited but I am here to tell you that standing up for yourself and believing in yourself is how you help your marriage reach it’s highest vibration. Because when I started living at a higher vibration and my confidence was strengthened, Seth started upping his game. Because I started seeing more of my potential I treated Seth where I saw his potential could be. This allowed him to feel inspired and as he felt inspired his action became more aligned with the higher vibration. Being confident means you know who you are and when you know who you are, you are better able to see others for their own potential.

I am so grateful to have started working on my confidence because it truly has allowed me to grow and become a better and more supportive wife to my husband. It’s allowed me to not settle in my marriage and help it reach a higher vibration, allowing our marriage to be better than we could ever imagine. This doesn’t mean we get along 100% of the time, it just means that we communicate better and our focus is no longer about being right but maintaining a higher vibration. It means we have the same goals and dreams and we seek to build each other up. It means we support each other, even when we do not understand. So be confident, know who you are and what you want out of life, you might be surprised how amazing your marriage starts to feel afterwards.