For the last 10 weeks I have had the pleasure of working with Roya Mattis in her 10 week course all about becoming an energy magnet and uncaging your femininity. I cannot rave enough about Roya and my experience of building a tribe of women coming together and celebrating each other and cheering each other on. This course was so helpful in many ways but my favorite was how it opened my eyes to what I was already doing but not realizing it and to new possibilities in building my dream marriage. In her course she dives deep into true femininity and helps women tap into that energy to help manifest the life they want and deserve.
When I first started working with Roya, I was feeling the burn out of staying in my masculine energy and not letting my feminine energy breath. I was low energy and felt little desire in the day to day rut of life. I was feeling directionless and unsure what I was doing with myself. Though I originally joined just for my own personal growth and direction. I quickly learned how much my marriage needed this information.
I did not realize what was going on in my marriage. I thought we were happy and things were fine. They were but that was the problem. It was just fine. It wasn’t spectacular, it wasn’t breathtaking, it wasn’t the dream. Mainly because my dream got bigger. One of the key takeaways I got from it was that I was so much in my masculine energy that my husband and I would be butting heads often. When I learned about the two different energies and found ways to use both in my life, I was able to have conversations with my husband in my femininity creating a more fluent conversation because he didn’t feel the masculine energy attacking, he felt the feminine curiosity seeking clarity.
The other way it helped my marriage was I focused on what I needed to do and not what I thought he needed. I trusted my body and nourished it so that it could provide the answer to questions I had. I was able to fully step into my purpose learning and loving the women I was becoming which allowed me to accept the love my husband was giving. I was blocking a lot of love from my spouse because I still struggled with loving myself fully so how could my husband love me fully. But as I learned to love it for all it’s glory, accepting that another could love it became possible.
I truly have loved working with Roya and there is so much more I could say! But I don’t want to share all her juicy secrets! So if you are struggling in uncaging your true femininity I invite you to seek Roya out! Ask me for a link and uncage your inner Queen!